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a man’s life, especially in the beginning, is often built around one question: How do I become worthy?
You don’t need to be told you’re not enough. The world says it in a thousand little ways. You just kind of know. Somewhere between being a boy and becoming a man, you look around and realise everything you want - respect, love, attention, peace - has to be earned.
That’s the deal.
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Source:
https://goranshbharal.substack.com/p/what-women-dont-understand-about